The issue about growing up is the case whereby u care more about how others feel, and how others react to you. (And of coz, how u react to others in times of important moment is crucial too)
The fear of failure closely echoes the fear of rejection.
This means that you fear to try, bcoz u scared that people will laugh @ you. (for me at least)
Then it reaches a point whereby u will just giv it a try (which is gd, bcoz u tried eventually)..
That's the difference btw someone who succeed and someone who doesn't.
the fear of failure, (doesn't apply for academics) the fear that my weakness/mistake would implicate others, and screw things up is the reason why i'll get so stressed, pissed, and blaming myself thereafter.
And what make things worst, some people are less understanding than others.
okay optimistism is important:
and what is fortunate is that, some people are more understanding than others.
i need to read up more, i hope i do.
